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Word from Wormingford

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31 January 2014

Mourners are unwilling to sing at funerals now, says Ronald Blythe

A SEPIA, half-lit day. Wild duck fly over, squawking and honking. I am desultory: reading a bit of this, writing a bit of that. I could have gardened, I tell myself. The white cat is a blur against the window.

On Sunday, Christ is being presented at the Temple. He is 40 days old. They used to call it "the Meeting", i.e. of the child with aged Simeon. They used to sing Lumen ad revelationem. Not much lumen on the ancient farm at this moment, but always plenty of revelation.

A friend has brought me the Akenfield chair, a mighty piece of furniture, lugging it through the wet garden. It is made of various woods from the trees where I used to live. Tim made it, and Jason set it down on the brick floor, where it at once became part of the old house. It is pale and heavy, and very hard. Could it bear a cushion? Its puritan beauty might flinch from such indulgence.

Jason returns to his old farmhouse, where he is a wonderful drawer of animals. Portraits of his ewes and cows look down on us in the pub. Furniture-makers used to be called joiners. I must not place the new chair near a radiator, or else what Tim has joined together will come apart.

I observe it lovingly after he has driven away, thinking of how it will outlive me, how it will fade and become worn, how a woman will call her husband to move it. It has a small drawer at the back in which I have put a card which says: "Tim Whiting made me, 2014."

The Suffolk poet Robert Bloomfield honoured his gate-legged table with a poem. I see him bent over it, pushing his pen. He is the first writer I ever wrote about - this when I was 15. His famous work was The Farmer's Boy, a Georgian idyll,a blissful view of life on the land, shorn of its hardships. He receiveda fortune for it, but died penniless.

His long poem became an agricultural party-piece. Young men would stand up in the pub and spout it by the yard. Or sing it. There were singing pubs and non-singing pubs. Vaughan Williams, collecting folk-songs before the First World War, asked a young man to sing him a song so that he could write it down, but they were both thrown out of the bar by the landlord because it wasn't a singing pub.

Now and then, I take a non-singing funeral. "Immortal, Invisible" I announced the other day. A full church, but hardly a sound. I could hardly say "Sing up!" with the coffin in front of me.

Various reasons are given for these packed non-singing funerals. Some say that the abolition of school assemblies has produced a hymnless population. Gareth is doing his best, of course. But what a loss. No "Immortal, Invisible, God only wise" - yet Nine Lessons and Carols only a month ago, and in full voice.

But tears. Such tears from those who had not expected to cry. Usually the mourners are worn out with hospitals and drugs, with the ferocity of loss. The practice of religion brings philosophy as well as faith. All these things fill the wide spaces of an old country church for a funeral. The congregation is perfectly sad. "And afterwards at the White Horse." And afterwards the expense - £10,000, they reckon.

But enough of these wintry thoughts. A woman mounts the Temple steps. She is holding a child.

 

 

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