The Revd Paul J. Mansell writes:
CANON Alan Pyburn, who died on 2 April, aged 84, was born in
Sunderland. His father was a primary-school teacher, and, although
his post ensured a regular income, Alan's early years could not
have been easy, given the economic climate then. Growing up in a
seaside suburb of Sunderland, however, would have created many
delights for a young boy.
Alan attended Bede Grammar School, and later said that he owed a
great deal to the man who taught him art and gave him a hobby for
life. Several members of Alan's family and many of his parishioners
are still enjoying his understated talents. Alan continued: "I am
also indebted to the man who taught me history, and enabled me to
get an open scholarship to Cambridge - and established a lifelong
habit of reading."
In 1948, Alan accepted a place at Gonville and Caius College,
Cambridge, to read history and theology. It was during this time
that his call into the Church became particularly evident, and Alan
decided to seek ordination. This calling, however, was not
immediately fulfilled, as Alan was first required to complete his
national service. He spent the period between 1951 and 1953 with
the Royal Artillery, serving in Hong Kong and elsewhere.
After several interviews, Alan was accepted for training, and
studied at Westcott House in Cambridge. In 1955, Alan was made
deacon, and, in 1957, ordained priest, in Durham Cathedral. He
served his title in Barnard Castle, a market town in Teesdale, Co.
Durham, learning the ropes from the Vicar, Alan Webster. Alan then
moved to become Chaplain back at Gonville and Caius, Cambridge,
under Hugh Montefiore, who was then Dean.
In 1960, Alan was appointed Vicar of Dallington, living in an
old vicarage next to a large housing estate. After several years, a
young member of his congregation, Joyce McCabe, caught his eye.
Their relationship blossomed, and, in 1969, Alan married her, the
love of his life. Three years afterwards, in 1972, he accepted the
post of Vicar of St Giles's, Oxford, and so Joyce and Alan moved
from the town they had both enjoyed, in Alan's case for 12
years.
Although modest and humble, Alan, intellectually gifted,
delighted in university life. He took great pleasure in forging
connections between the colleges and the local community.
Alan and Joyce provided accommodation for overseas students
during the summer months, enjoying the large vicarage and its
proximity to the open spaces of the University Parks. Joyce was an
excellent cook, and Alan was a bon viveur; so evenings
with their resident students must have been a treat for all
concerned, as they discussed the latest issues around the dining
table.
Alan and Joyce remained at St Giles's until 1979, when Alan was
offered the last and by far the longest tenure of his professional
life. They moved to Henley-on-Thames. Alan was installed as Rector
of St Mary's, where he remained for 16 years. He described the post
as a full, demanding, and worthwhile job. The excitement of the
Thames and the annual Royal Regatta were only part of the
attractions. The beautiful Chiltern landscape of wooded hills and
green fields ensured an idyllic backdrop for the Pyburns. Henley
provided a wonderful opportunity for Alan to indulge his passions
for art and music, through the many festivals and exhibitions.
Alan was Rural Dean from 1984 to 1994, which ensured that he was
fruitfully occupied. His presence at diocesan synod, held on a
Saturday, was sometimes fitful. "Saturday was the day designated by
the Lord for cutting the grass," would be his mischievous comment.
His commitment to the Church was never doubted, as he was made an
Hon. Canon of Christ Church Cathedral in 1990. As would be expected
in such a famous town, many well-known faces came through the doors
of St Mary's.
Alan's natural humility, self-effacement, and lack of
preoccupation with his position meant that he was not a man to be
easily intimidated. Known for his calm disposition, he took
everything in his stride. To mark an episcopal visit in 1988, Joyce
exercising her celebrated culinary talents to create a wonderful
meal. To accompany it, she made a redcurrant sauce that Alan named
"Cardinal Sauce".
In 1995, Alan and Joyce retired to Pippin Cottage in Finstock.
Alan continued to support various parishes during interregnums, and
provided a gracious contribution to church life, particularly
closer to home, where he was much loved. He continued to read and
paint, mainly landscapes, which he sold, and gave the money away.
They both enjoyed walking their dog, which kept them active.
Judy, Alan's niece, provided a fitting tribute to end. The
physician, polar explorer, natural historian, painter, and
ornithologist Edward Wilson was at Gonville and Caius some 50 years
before Alan. Before dying in the snows of the Antarctic, Wilson
wrote: "I shall simply fall asleep, don't be unhappy, all is for
the best. We are playing a good part in a great scheme arranged by
God himself, and all is well." Alan's final words, after prayers by
his bedside, were "Don't worry. I'm fine."