From Mr Alan Stanley
Sir, - The Bishop of Stockport, the Rt Revd Robert Atwell, is
right in most, but not all, of what he says in his article (
Comment, 24 May) urging the Church to win back funerals from
He overstates the Church's case by implying that parish clergy
always provide pastoral follow-up. The Church relies heavily on
retired clergy for funeral ministry, and many of these work across
parish boundaries. It would be instructive to know how they provide
follow-up. With the recent débâcle over fees for retired clerics
taking services at the crematorium, the Church may have lost a lot
of good will from this invaluable resource.
Bishop Atwell's second confusion is to equate "celebrant" with
"secular". I know a number of Christian celebrants who see their
work as mission on the edge. I am one, and am constantly
disappointed to find the clergy hostile to my work. We build
relationships with families and communities over time, and are able
to keep the rumour of God alive in unexpected ways, and in
Celebrants can be trained to be effective funeral-takers over a
long residential weekend and with mentoring support. Without doubt,
if the Church trained committed lay people in taking funerals, and
each parish had an effective programme of ministry to the bereaved,
parishes would win back funerals. How many times have I heard
funeral directors say: "I'm still waiting for Revd X to get back to
me; so I've rung you"?
Bishop Atwell has spoken a challenging word to the Church.
Please let us respond in an imaginative way, not by simply laying
more work on the shoulders of parish clergy.
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