So Many
Everests: From cerebral palsy to casualty
consultant
Diana and Victoria Webster
Lion £8.99
(978-0-7459-5595-7)
Church Times Bookshop £8.10 (Use code
CT307 )
VICTORIA - known to her
family as Spratty - was born in 1965 to British parents working in
Finland.
The book begins with a
fairly disturbing account of her birth and first few weeks (her
mother, Diana, is not allowed to hold her for several weeks), and
it is only when Victoria is two years old that her parents are
informed that she has cerebral palsy.
Attending a Steiner school
allows Victoria to learn at her own pace and to "follow her
dreams". At the age of 11, Victoria decides that she wants to
become a doctor, and the rest of the story relates to how she does
indeed achieve this, unlikely though it seems to family, friends,
and teachers.
Victoria takes up her story
when she travels from Helsinki to Stockholm, to start her medical
training at the prestigious Karolinska Institute, and relates the
many years of training, travelling, and hard work which lead to her
qualification of specialist in A&E medicine, the first in
Scandinavia.
This book could easily be
seen as just one more in a long line of stories of people with
disabilities triumphing over adversity to achieve their dreams. Yet
it is as much about the way in which we judge people by
appearances, and discriminate on the basis of our perceptions; and
this is clearly a message that still needs to be heard.
Supported by friends and
family, Victoria's dogged determination to achieve is threatened
only by her lack of self-belief, which stems from the prejudice and
bullying that she experiences from school through to medical
school, from children, teachers, and tutors alike. Her parents'
reluctance to report this bullying provides an interesting
reflection in Diana's story. Although some possible reasons are
discussed, no conclusion is reached about why this is.
The stories of both mother
and daughter are heart-warming, personal, and honest. Slightly
disconcerting is the consistent use of the word "handicap", long
since rejected by most in the field of disability as unacceptable,
in view of its association with the phrase "cap in hand", from the
times when many disabled people could earn their living only
through begging.
This is simple storytelling,
and yet perhaps all the more powerful for that. The basics of
prejudice and discrimination have not changed over the years, and
we have not yet succeeded in eradicating them from our society,
despite the best efforts of legislation. Diana observes that
attitudes to disability are changed by education and example; and
Victoria has proved this by her own remarkable achievement.
Wendy Bryant is disability adviser for the diocese of
Oxford.