From the Revd Rob Hingley
Sir, - I value Jo Ind's efforts to
encourage a more positive and rounded view of sex in our Christian
discourse, as illustrated in her article (
Comment, 14 September). But she simplifies and adapts
Ignatius's Rules, or Guidelines for the Discernment of Spirits, in
an unhelpful way.
The principles of consolation and
desolation apply to our prayerful relationship with God. Ignatian
spirituality is one of "finding God in all things". So I appreciate
that the joys of sex may lead a couple into consolation, enhancing
their capacity to "praise, reverence, and serve God". But the
pursuit of sexual excitement for its own sake, while apparently
pleasurable, may also lead the human soul in the opposite
direction. There is such a thing as false consolation, and the evil
spirit has his own ways of giving apparent consolation to direct
the soul away from God.
It is noteworthy that, when Ignatius
began to discover the principles of consolation and desolation on
his sickbed in Loyola, he chose to abandon romantic desires and
devote his life o the celibate service of God.
A symposium between Jesuit scholars
and Christian sex therapists on sex and Ignatian Guidelines for the
Discernment might produce interesting results, but Jo Ind's
references to Ignatius's ideas are too glib, and possibly
misleading.
ROB HINGLEY
St Bernard's Vicarage, 147 Hamstead Road
Great Barr, Birmingham B43 5BB