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Near-death experiences and the bereaved

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23 November 2012

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From Dr Dewi Rees
Sir, - It was good to see Ted Harrison's article on near-death experiences (NDEs) (Comment, 26 October). Although he says that the accounts are essentially anecdotal, the use of statistical tests makes the available evidence more scientifically exact. This does not make the reality of an afterlife more certain, though it strengthens the likelihood that this assumption is true.

NDEs vary greatly in content, but usually they involve a feeling of peace and painlessness, and sometimes an out-of-the-body experience (OBE). Other experiences reported include visions of Jesus and/or the saints, though the nature of these latter experiences varies between cultures. NDEs are probably more common than OBEs. About one tenth of the population have at least one OBE sometimes during their life.

In her written works, e.g. The Interior Castle, St Teresa of Avila (1515-82) recorded her experiences of being outside the body, but did so only at the behest of her confessor, and was careful to indicate that they had no devilish association. She was canonised in 1622, and declared a Doctor of the Church in 1970, the first woman to be so honoured by the Roman Catholic Church.

Parallel to the studies in NDEs and OBEs, there has been an increased interest in bereaved people's experiences of their dead loved ones. An initial study was published in 1971 by me and Sylvia Lutkins, a statistician. We found that almost half widowed people experienced, in clear consciousness, the presence of their dead spouse at various times, often for many years afterwards. Some saw the deceased, and a minority felt their touch. We concluded that these experiences are normal and helpful, and occur irrespective of gender or social status.

The study has been replicated in other centres, and my diocesan bishop (G. O. Williams), later Archbishop of Wales, asked me to speak to his clergy on the subject shortly after publication. This I did, and they seemed to find it interesting and helpful. Although the results were immediately accepted by psychiatrists, and sociologists consider it a benchmark study for their own research, no other ordained person expressed an interest in this work until 1999, when Fr Gerald O'Collins SJ was co-chairing a conference in New York on the resurrection, and he was asked if he knew of Rees's work. He hadn't heard of me, but obtained copies of my relevant publications, and discussed my 1971 paper in his book Easter Faith (DLT, 2003).

Later, after I had published Pointers to Eternity (Y Lolfa, 2010), he wrote of it again, in The Irish Theological Quarterly (2011), 76 (3) 224-237, in his paper "The Resurrection and Bereavement Experiences". I am grateful for his interest, and suggest that these bereavement studies, and those mentioned by Ted Harrison, are relevant to us as Christians when we consider the significance of the resurrection, and the reality of the afterlife.

DEWI REES
Plott Cottage
Stretton on Dunsmore
Warks CV23 9HL

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